It breaks our hearts when we hear DONMs say that they won’t have children because they are scared they will do to their children what was done to them.
It breaks our hearts because we know those are the very women who would be wonderful mothers/parents.
But yet, it’s true that parenting well is a skill, and since we didn’t learn it from our own mothers, we have to learn it consciously.
We will be creating and running a workshop soon to help you learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy parenting, unlearn the bad parenting habits you might have picked up, and to learn good ways of being a parent. If you would like to be advised of this, simply subscribe to the mailing list.